PAIN....

Pain... the only thing other than the happiness which makes u feel of ur existence..we feel pain when it hurts ....u also feel pain when some body goes away form u....u feel the pain when someone very close to u fail to understand u time and again....u feel the pain when u dont achieve what u aspired for or what u dreamt...u feel the pain when u want some one to be with u and who is never there for u...but again in my analysis i come to one conclusion....there might be several reasons to feel the pain...but u should be strong enough not to feel this pain lets say brush aside this pain..there has to be ways for it....if someone does not understand you simply stop thinking abt u and dont give a damn abt what he thinks....if u feel the pain of separation from someone just assume he was never there for you...or just assume you will meet up again...that way i think the pain will go.....and also these are all secondary things...try to find ur ultimate aim in life and let all the other things be subordinate to it.....and u will be a happy man....

Expectations....

I have lots of time these days so i keep evaluating something or the other. I was thinking about my friends or rather good friends and reflecting on the reasons why they are such a good friend to me. In the past one year also I made some good friends. Well i have realized one thing u have certain expectations from ur friend and if they fulfill those expectation u regard them to be good friends....but on the other hand I think am i expecting too much from the other side? My nature is to go all out for ur friends and do evrythin possible in my hands without thinking of the probs i might face...(i m not boasting but this is my nature)....and earlier though i was not expecting sth in return..i have started expecting sth from my friends,,,and in process when those expectations rae not fulfilled i become sad...and may be enter into certain arguments and then a fight (verbal) with them....later when i gave a thought about all this i realized i was wrong when i was expecting anything from my friends....so i will try not to expect anything from friends.....i realize that they might not be like me...they possibly are not in a postion to do as much as i require,,,,so inspite of being sad,,i should look at the practicality of the situation and accept whatever comes ur way....i think u should selflessly love and care....then only u can be happy.....and from now on i will try to do the same.,,,of course that wud be a bit mechanical but that is a sure way to be happy.....bas ab itna gnan hi kaafi hai.....